No,

I believe in commitment, honesty, openness, accountability and respect.

These things do not change if you have one or 100 partners.

I am convinced that the capacity to be monogamous is genetic thus being non monogamous is also genetic.

A study into meer cats has shown that there is a genetic difference between meer cats that mate for life and those that have multiple partners. If it is a genetic thing than it is also unrealistic to force everyone to be monogamous.

For one of the Best Birthday pressies ever.

Tim Minchin Live is FUCKING BRILLIANT

As many of you know April is month that has a lot of bad or painful memories in it.

It is also the month that my birthday falls in.

As of today my birthday is the 18th of October.

I will be celebrating my birthday every year from now on, on that date.

Party etc.

This way I dont have to deal with Emo Ian on my birthday.

I worked last night till about 10:30pm came home and went to bed, nothing intesting there till at 2:43am i woke up from a dream / nightmare where I got raped by 4 to 7 guys.

did not fall back asleep :(

feel like crap and the feeling of the dream still lingers in my body.

grrr stupid fucking dream / nightmare.

seems the mask will have to stay on a while longer.

it appears that i managed to hurt people i care about in less than 12 hours of being me.

I just read this thanks to tacit and thought I should share it http://jennamedaris.com/blog/?p=1418

Its a really good read for all those who are poly or thinking poly

some days are just harder than others.

Come here tomorrow and wash today away

I am wondering if yuo can have to much IM in ones life.

I look over my instant messaging and I have

ICQ
Yahoo
MSN
Livejournal chat
Facebook Chat
googletalk

Oh well it cant be helped.

i sux at it but i like it :)

snow is so amazing and this place is so beautiful.

we had a ascking lesson and I crashed into the other guy learning to ski on 3 occassions. once so hard I took his skis out from under him lol

we are going into town tomorrow which is brilliant, meet a lovely couple that is taking us into town
*happy dance*

we will be back in time for our 1pm lesson and then we have a lesson on sat and sun. which hopefully means that we will ski the slops soon. and more so it means when we get to silver star mountain i wont be a complete novice.

*big happy dance*

well i still have not slept much which sux as i am keeping lildevilette up and she not liking that :(

tim eto try sleep again (1am here)

hope everyone is have an orgasmic time back in OZ.

sleep is hard enough for me at the best of times.

I usually sleep 4 - 6 hours a nite and it is broken with usually 3 wakeups.

well canada atm has taken no sleep to an amazing level.

went to bed 11pm went to sleep 11:30pm

woke up at 1am. it is now 5am and I am still awake.

*waves fist at teh air*

oh well how bad can 12hrs sleep over 72 hours be.

It has been a great day
*happy dance*

It started off pretty interestingly;

- we slept in
- then lis headed out to buy a jacket which she did. came back with a very nice warm jacket that looked cool.
- lis also grabbed her snowboard.
- because we slept in she missed the ski training lesson.
- I headed out hire my ski's (decidied i would ski in my jeans and bugger the cold)
- got to the ski hire place nad started talking to an ozzie (70% of the staff here are oz) about how it sucked that there was no clothes hire place at which point he corrected us and told us about the clothes hire place. WTF why did everyone else say that there was no clothes rental place.
- well we got our clothes and went to the newbie area and tried to ski and snowboard
- well that was hell fun. i have some nice photos which i would post if i remembered the usb cable.
- we had a great dinner and now its time to check up with people on the interweb :)

The below post is a combination of 2 entries I made on the flight from Perth to the ski resort. I am sure you are all smart enough to figure it out and if u r not. Get of my damn friends list :p

We left home at 22:30 on the 27th of January (Perth time). Currently it is 21:45 on the 28th of January and we are 2 hours out of Vancouver at which point we have a 4-hour stop over and then a 1-hour flight to Kelowna or however the stupid place is spelt. To date I have had 2 hours sleep. The scary thing is that I have been up since 0800 on the 27th. So if my calculations are right, which at this point in time I have no idea if they are or not because I feel like a man hit by a truck, then run over by a steam roller and then server up on a plate for some blah de blah to eat me, bu8t I digress. Lets see its 16 hours for the 27th then 22 hours for today, hmm ouch brain hurts 38 hours. OK that’s not as bad as I thought it would be, so that means it will be 48 hours from when I left our place in Gosnells till when we walk into the resort and I will have had 2 hours sleep. Fuck I am going to be so screwed. I forgot the multi vitamins which is a bugger cause I could do with a vitamin b boast right about now. My nose is running and I am sneezing. I have just realised how to explain how crap I feel. If any female or group of females were to approach me and offer sex right now, no strings attached I feel like I would say no.

Well this is a pretty crap first post for the holiday so here is a summary so far:
Left Perth at a little after midnight.
Arrived in Sydney 6am (local time)
Walked to bus stop, paid $5.50 each to catch a bus from domestic to international airport.
Hung out in airport till 12 noon local time, which unfortunately because 12:30 because the flight was delayed.
Hoped on plane and have been on plane ever since. I think we have been flying 17hrs so far on this flight. The in-flight movies and TV shows are ok and there is an international power point next to the monitor so I was able to run the laptop of mains power ☺

Lis has had better luck than me with the sleeping thing. She has passed out a couple of times so far I think she has managed about 8 hrs sleep so far. Not more than 2 hour blocks but she is looking a lot sexier than I am right now.

We have 3 seats to ourselves due to Elfy not being able to make the journey with us. I was really looking forward to spending some quality time with elf. She means so much to lis and I hardly know her. This is not a bad thing, she is not my girlfriend, she is lis’s, But given lis loves me I know she has great taste so getting to know elf would have been a lovely thing. I was also hoping to be able to laze around the ski resort while the 2 of them went skiing. (old man syndrome) Now I will be out skiing my sexy ass of every day. Hmm I wonder if my butt will look better with all the ass exercise I will be doing ☺

Lis and I both have high hopes for this trip. As you all know the triad of lis, nita and I has unfortunately ended, we are all great friends. The end of the triad means that lis and I now start our journey as a couple, something neither of us has figured out how to do yet. Our triad had very clearly defined roles and responsibilities, now the lines are blurred as we still have shared financial responsibilities as a triad however from a romantic point of view it is Lis and I. We are not sure who is leading and who is following half the time. We can be walking along and one will stop and the other will as well, we then turn to each other and both go, “were we going?” to which we both reply “I don’t know I was following you”.
Lis and I have had more conflict in the last 6 weeks than the entire 3 yrs combined. Mostly as a result of us both mourning the loss of nita as a partner and both of us being completely confused about who we are as a couple. Our hope from this holiday is time find ourselves together. 10 days is a short amount of time but if we are lucky we will make some headway into this world of lisnian. I hope to keep you all informed about what we get up to and hopefully you will all see the changes that we hope will come out of this trip. Well the lights are coming back on and I am out of tissues so for now it is time for me to sign off ☺

We have now arrived in Vancouver and it is not as cold as I imagined. Went outside with lis for a smoke and it was like 3 degrees. I was ok in that temperature. I am hoping that with the thermals I will be fine in the snow ☺

Well I am going to try and sleep in the airport now.

Take care peoples and don’t party to hard without me :P

Hi Guys,

Well it seems there is a lovely 5 question meme doing the traps.

I guess this means I'm now open to asking or answering everyone else's questions too. :P

At 8:30am on the 1st of January we walked through the front door returning home from our night out.

enough said

*happy thoughts and memories*

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At 3pm approximately on Saturday the 27th of Decemember 2008 the first gray hair on noidea72's head was found.

This day will be remembered from here onwards as the day I got wisdom :)

Hi Guys,

Any chance any of you are 182 cm tall with long arms and have snow gear I can borrow for canada?

even second hand on ebay its $$$

so any ideas or if you have something and I have to rent it please please :)

thanks heaps